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  • How do I attend a Stumptown Strokes event?
    Stumptown Strokes events are typically held three times a month: on the second and fourth Sundays at 4 p.m, as well as a varying weeknight meeting from 6 to 8 p.m. Invites for the monthly gatherings are emailed out around the first of each month. Advance registration is required. In keeping with the venue capacity requirements, only 50 people may attend any given event.
  • How much do Stumptown Strokes events cost?
    Only $10 (which covers the venue rental, lube and supplies).
  • How many guys attend at a Stumptown Strokes event?
    Our venue has a maximum capacity of 50 people. Once we send out our monthly event invites, we typically reach venue capacity soon thereafter and registration closes. (Tip: if you plan on joining us, we encourage you to respond quickly to the invite to register your attendance.)
  • What's the age range of attendees?
    Guys who attend range in age from their 20s up to their 70s. The average age at any given Stumptown Strokes event is approximately 35 to 45 years old.
  • What if I don't want to be touched?
    You are in charge of your own body and, frankly, "No means no." Consent is key and should be respected among all attendees. Although it may be obvious to some people, we ask our attendees to always inquire first before touching another person. If someone replies "no thanks," please respect their wishes. It's that simple.
  • What's allowed (and not allowed) at a Stumptown Strokes event?
    We encourage consensual safe J/O play and stress the "no lips below the hips" rule. And while kissing is allowed, insertion of anything anywhere is not permitted — whether with yourself or another person. Some examples of permitted play: Self-masturbation and consensual mutual masturbation Showing off and watching Frot/Frottage (rubbing bodies/penises together) Oral contact above the waist only (kissing, nipple nibbling, etc.)
  • I don't identify as gay. Can I still attend?
    If you identify as male and enjoy jacking off with other males, you can (and should) attend. Masturbation is universal and, thus, applies to all sexual orientations. We are a group of men who enjoy jacking off with other men. If you enjoy watching and/or playing with other men while they jack off, you will fit right in. At no time do we ask anybody to disclose their sexual orientation and/or marital status. If, for any reason, you think you may be put off by this kind of environment, Stumptown Strokes is probably not for you.
  • What's provided at a Stumptown Strokes event?
    Stumptown Strokes places containers of lube and rolls of paper towels around the play space.
  • What to do in order to attend an event?
    In order to attend a Stumptown Strokes meetup you'll need to: Be on our email list to receive the ticket link (monthly email usually goes out the first of each month). Confirm your spot by clicking the ticket link in the email and buying your ticket online. (Sorry, a cash option for purchasing event tickets is not available.) Tickets can sell out within a couple days from the email announcement, so we encourage you to act fast if you're interested in attending. If you have a ticket and can't go, let us know ASAP so someone else can take your place. Send us an email at least 24 hours in advance and let us know if you'd like a refund. (We cannot guarantee a refund if notified less than 24 hours before a scheduled event.) On the day of the event, arrive within 30 minutes of check in with ID, and a bag for your clothes and a lock if you're going to use one of our limited availability lockers.
  • What about trans-men?
    While Stumptown Strokes is, first and foremost, a men's jack off club, we aren't in the business of defining what a man is. The majority of our members are cis-gender males, but we welcome our trans-brothers to join us.
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